MARRIAGE
You”re
are probably bigger
than your wife ,
taller perhaps , and certainly
stronger.That “s true physically
, and
it may be
true in some
other ways as well. Generally , men and
women have a
different emotional makeup. We
like to bear
down on a
problem and “just do
it.”They”re usually more
concerned about feelings,relationships----the softer
side of things.
That difference
means you may need
to be
careful in communicating
with your wife.Be
aware of her
feelings and vulnerabilities , and
do what you
can to meet
her needs ----emotionally and spiritually , as well
as physically.
Speak gently ,
even when you
are upset.Strong words
have great power
to harm.Softer words
have have a
healing power.
Be considerate
of her need
to talk. She may
need to discuss things that
seem minute to
you , but they are
important to her.Women
may not be
the weaker sex ,
but they are
often the gentler
one.
Be gentle
with your wife.After
all , she is
a gift from
GOD.
He
who finds a
wife finds what
is good. { PROVERBS 18:22}
Written by Stan
Toler , the senior pastor
of Trinity Church
of the Nazarene
in Oklahoma City, USA.
